She/Her/Hers
Registered Nurse Certified and Public Health Nurse at O’Connor Hospital
San Jose Buddhist Church
I enjoy the interaction with people. I like taking care of people. I like seeing them get better if they are ill. Being a Buddhist has influenced my work in a couple of ways. The original hospital I worked with was a Catholic Hospital. They did a lot of things that Catholics do, and as Buddhists, I’ve never been exposed to those things before, things like Ash Wednesday. I had to go into a patient’s room, and I had no idea what Ash Wednesday initially until my coworkers explained it to me. I remember walking in and thinking, “she has dirt on her forehead, what’s going on here? Should I say something?” Good thing I didn’t because I later saw nuns going around into people’s rooms. I realized something must be going on. I spoke later to a coworker and she explained it to me. I tried to be respectful of it, but it was interesting. In terms of managing patients as Buddhist, I try to be more empathetic. In terms of COVID, I try to explain to my patients in not necessarily a Buddhistic way. Buddhism focuses on interdependence: everything relates to each other. With COVID, it’s super clear: if my patient is not wearing a mask and she is positive, not only is she affecting me, but also whomever I am exposed to, and also her family and whomever they are exposed to. At the hospital, you are only allowed to have a significant other or a person with you, if you are admitted. If you are not admitted, you are by yourself. Being alone by yourself can be very intimidating. When you are dropped off at a hospital, it is very isolating, especially if you have anxiety. So, seeing how you are connected to each other, and how you can relate to them can make a big difference for the patient.
I guess my message to healthcare workers now would be, “keep doing what you are doing, you’re doing a great job.” I think the public is a lot more aware of the sacrifices we make now, we get more positive reinforcement from our patients than we used to. Stay vigilant. Stay safe.